So, it's that time of the
year when
students get their A level results and the battle for uni
places begins. There have
been stories in the media about A
grade students not
getting the
place they had hoped for. My concern is the importance that is
placed on the only future being the one where a
student gets the grades they desire and the
university of
their choice. It is a lot of pressure to put
young people under at the
start of
their future.
Some break under the strain and we
inevitably hear of
students who
consider suicide
because the alternative future is not the one they had planned. I also see failing
students here who feel
that they have let themselves and others down if they do not
achieve what is
somehow subliminally
expected of them. I try to tell them
that maybe there is a
different future ahead or a new path to travel but it is difficult for them to see. My past has not
been one of A levels,
a university degree and a glittering
career.
Some of it
involved surviving on
benefits with two
young children. However, I
would not change my past as it has made me what I am now. I have a job I
enjoy that is rewarding. Maybe we can only
appreciate the
future we have when it becomes the past we learnt from. I leave you with this quote.
'What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us'
Ralph Waldo Emerson
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